This post has been hard for me to write and I’ve struggled with whether or not I even need to share. I’ve embarked on a health journey that will be an ongoing part of my story. Writing about it helps me see how I am processing and will hopefully give me perspective. Since you sometimes read what I write, you too are part of my story, so I thought maybe you wouldn’t mind if I shared with you. The original post was too long, so I have broken it down. Today’s part is more general and reflective after living a year of discovery that led to a diagnosis of a chronic autoimmune disease. The main take away is that God is faithful, even when I have questions; especially when I have questions.
God is good, even when life is not. I know that. But yet, sometimes I wonder why he allows me to suffer. I find myself wondering why I’m being punished. I know that is not Biblically sound, so I try to banish that kind of thinking immediately. Even though I know better, I wait for the other shoe to drop.
I remind myself of all the good that God has bestowed on me and remember the times he has restored my health, but I still find myself wavering on a shaky tightrope between faith that he will heal and fretting that maybe I’ve run out of get-well tickets. Again, I know that is faulty thinking. I know better. And I pray hard because I don’t want to give in to such fear.
Because it is fear brought on by attacks of the enemy who is constantly trying to defeat our walk of faith. If he can convince us that God is out to get us then he can render us useless and a quivering heap on the floor, bound by fear, unable to fulfill God’s purpose for our life.
Even in those times when we need healing, and God chooses otherwise, he is still good, and we can still have faith in his promises. He has promised never to leave us or forsake us. He is faithful. I know that, and I cling to that and do my best to head in the direction of hope. And I pray hard, thanking God for his goodness even in the midst of my bad.
Life for me last year was a very up and down journey that ranged from despair and depression to faith and hope and back again. I’m sure over time I will be able to unwrap some beautiful gifts from the journey. I do believe that in all that is hard, God works on our behalf and teaches us great truths. When bad things happen to us, he doesn’t leave us to stumble in the dark. He is right beside us, holding us under his feathers. He knows life can be scary and uncertain, but he also knows that he is our only certainty. I know that too.
The truth is we live in a fallen world that is rampant with sin and disease. Sometimes, for reasons we may never know or understand, we fall prey to the fallen. We know that bad things do happen to good people. But God, in his great merciful love for us, holds us tight in those times and works on our behalf. We don’t always get the answer we are hoping for, but we always have the hope of our father. In his time, he will make all things right. Some of us may suffer this side of heaven, but he knows all about suffering, and he knows how to comfort. And I pray hard because I need his mercy and comfort as I live in a fallen world.
Praying hard for grace,